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A Letter to my 2020 Self
Dear 2020 version of me, I know you have a million emotions running through your head after hearing the word "cancer" for the very first...
Carmen D.
Mar 126 min read


Facing Anxiety after Trauma
One of the biggest myths about surviving cancer is that life returns to normal once you're declared cancer-free. While we survivors have...
Carmen D.
May 20, 20244 min read


Conquering your Love Life after Cancer
Let me start off by sharing these pictures. They represent more than just me being a bridesmaid and a wedding guest for my friends'...
Carmen D.
May 13, 20246 min read

Motivation: What is the fuel to continue?
Going through cancer treatment while facing daily uncertainties is undeniably hard. Every cancer patient has a unique experience when it...
Carmen D.
May 6, 20244 min read


It's not always so black and white.
Many people criticize social media, claiming it promotes fakeness and toxicity. The constant comparisons on social media leave a...
Carmen D.
Dec 10, 20236 min read


Returning back to Work
When I was diagnosed with cancer back in August 2020, I was forced to go on medical leave for around 18 months. Cancer has taken 1.5...
Carmen D.
Apr 5, 20238 min read


The "Battle" Language
I have to admit that the idea of "fighting" or "battling" cancer felt quite empowering at first. Being called a warrior, a hero or an...
Carmen D.
Aug 18, 20223 min read

My One Year Post Chemo Hair Growth Journey
One of the most common things that cancer patients try to figure out is their hair growth timeline once chemo treatment is over. I have...
Carmen D.
Jun 17, 20223 min read


The Reality of Survivor's Guilt
Survivor's guilt is something that is often talked about by cancer survivors. At first, I struggled to resonate with this because of...
Carmen D.
Jun 15, 20223 min read


2020 at a glance
It is almost December and we are a month away from turning 2022. And no, it is not a typo that I wrote "2020" in this headline. For me...
Carmen D.
Nov 25, 20215 min read


Confessions of a Cancer Survivor
I used to be a firm believer that "everything happens for a reason." While there are events in life that are too good to be a...
Carmen D.
Oct 7, 20212 min read

Vulnerability is Healing
For starters, I feel extremely overwhelmed with gratitude that I have such an amazing support system. Many of my friends and family have...
Carmen D.
Oct 7, 20214 min read


My Review on "Alexa & Katie"
"Alexa & Katie" is a Netflix show about a girl with Leukemia and her life after cancer. This Netflix original series took place after the...
Carmen D.
Apr 24, 20213 min read


My Experience with God during Cancer
Faith and religion can be such touchy topics. That is why I wanted to make things very clear from the start that I do not intend to force...
Carmen D.
Apr 22, 20215 min read

The Perks of Wearing a Wig
When I was first told that hair loss was inevitable during my chemo treatment, I was devastated yet still in denial. I loved my hair and...
Carmen D.
Mar 10, 20214 min read


Colouring Through Cancer
A good friend of mine gave me this wonderful gift: a 30 page coloring book consisting of a variety of positive affirmations & statements...
Carmen D.
Mar 10, 20212 min read


Some thoughts I felt like sharing
Going through cancer really puts your entire life on hold. It's like you are being frozen in time while the rest of the world is moving...
Carmen D.
Dec 10, 20205 min read


Things aren't always what they seem
"But you are so young.." "You don't look sick." "Don't worry, it's nothing serious. You are young and healthy..." We need to break...
Carmen D.
Dec 4, 20203 min read


The dangers of googling your diagnosis
First things first...Stay away from the internet! Truth is, I am seriously guilty as charged for this. And it isn't just googling stuff...
Carmen D.
Nov 24, 20203 min read


How to support someone with Cancer
When you know someone going through cancer, you often wonder what you can do to help them. Because cancer is such a sensitive topic, we...
Carmen D.
Nov 2, 20203 min read
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